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Husband Guy from work. It's been next to midnight pickups all last week as well. On a good day, he'll be done at around 1930h or 2000h. And they try not to work weekends. Try...
It's tough. I miss him. And I'm lonely. But there's nothing we can do about it. He has a job. I have a job. No complaining allowed.
Oh, he just IM'ed me. He's packing up to leave. Wow, they're packing it in early today.
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Have a happy rest-of-evening together!
*hugs*
I understand how you feel. I remember waiting for my boyfriend when he used to work the late shift. Sometimes, he would come home at 3am. =/
Bleh. Most people I talk to about this say, "Oh, you should be happy you never see each other." Say what?!?
If I wanted to sleep alone, I would have stayed single.
No one's said that to me yet, but that's pretty insensitive.
Not to plant paranoia in your head, but I kinda worry that it's an escape behaviour. Ie. he's [on some level] purposely burying himself in his work to stay away from me. I ask him every once in a while (about once a year or so, not very often) very gently, but he always says he isn't. And I believe him, but I want to keep a pulse on it... =S That and he does call me at random during the day because he just wants to hear my voice. I also call him at random for various reasons and he's always there.
I also don't know if I should put pressure on him to spend more time with me. Knowing his work, I know that he truly can't help the workload. So, to have more time with me, he'd have to quit his job and not only that, he'd have to end his career because any other job in the software industry would be just as crazy. And that's not an option.
But if there's no pressure to change, then we'll always maintain this status quo. =P
Bleh, thanks for listening =}
I ask John (a lot more than you do) whether he just doesn't want to be at home... he also insists that he just has too much to do.
that's pretty insensitive
You would not -believe- the things people have said to me about it... I tried talked to people (co-workers) because it's bothering me so badly, and now I've just stopped. I really don't need more bad thoughts. :}
*sighs* I could go on and on about this...