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Interlocking Fingers

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Only userinfothe Husband and I can have a bicker-fight about this...

How do you and your significant other hold hands?

Interlocking Fingers™, right? Like most normal people, I suspect you do. ... Wow. See comments. XD

Does anyone do The Kindergarten Washroom Partner™ style?

He absently picked up my hand that way once, years ago. I hate it. It feels all weird and wrong. It brings back memories of school, Boy Germs™ and... well, being required to go to the washroom in pairs and walk down the hall holding hands. *BLECH* I feel like squirming out of it.

Now that he knows I hate it, he does it on purpose to annoy me. Then he picks it up a little and jiggles it. And it's totally unfair that I can only smack him at a red light because he's driving >K}

[Update]

Thanks a lot, you Kindergarten people. Now you've made userinfoHusband Guy all gloaty about this. You're supposed to be my friends. =D =D


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bride
Feb. 24th, 2005 06:48 am (UTC)
Really? O_o Interesting... I've only ever seen interlocking fingers with anyone over 10. =}
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karinakarina
Feb. 24th, 2005 07:26 am (UTC)
we don't do interlocking fingers 'cause his fingers are fat and i have short fingers and it just doesn't work.
bride
Feb. 24th, 2005 07:41 am (UTC)
Hmm... he has much bigger hands than I do. Maybe it's psychological. =}
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goddessdi
Feb. 24th, 2005 07:35 am (UTC)
we do interlocking fingers but my hand has to be under his not on top. It feel wierd if my hand is on top.
bride
Feb. 24th, 2005 07:40 am (UTC)
Me too, unless we're sitting down and my shoulder is overlapping his anyway =)
pne
Feb. 24th, 2005 07:50 am (UTC)
I think we do both... though I'd have to do it to be sure.
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cat_irix
Feb. 24th, 2005 12:12 pm (UTC)
Funny, I prefer the "kindergarten" style, it feels more safe and comforting and I even like jiggling. While interlocking fingers, for some reason, feel vaguely associated with sexual abuse...
tinyflamingo
Feb. 24th, 2005 01:47 pm (UTC)
Interlocking fingers. We started doing that when we were supposedly "just best friends" and both totally in love with each other. I guess it felt more like a "couple" that way and it was a way of intensely flirting when we were walking. We could still get away with pretending we were just friends and he was helping me over the curbs though. Hee. :)
bride
Feb. 24th, 2005 05:40 pm (UTC)
Okay, maybe I'm still stuck in the teenager mentality of dating. As soon as you hold hands in _any_ way, you're _more_than_friends_ at that point =D
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diannadinoble
Feb. 24th, 2005 01:52 pm (UTC)
Interlocking fingers here - same with the poster above, my hand has to be facing forward - or on the bottom.
rcantilles
Feb. 24th, 2005 01:57 pm (UTC)
my hand is always on the bottom or facing forward. But the style depends on the mood and on the season. For instance; it's cold now and we're wearing gloves all the time, which makes interlocking fingers impossible. When it's warm, we normally interlock. But sometimes I like kindergarden hands; as someone else said, it feels safe somehow. Robin HATES it though.
retrospeck
Feb. 24th, 2005 02:44 pm (UTC)
The funny thing is... with my first boyfriend I insisted on interlocking fingers, it just made sense. I don't know. After that I was a clasper, and nowadays.. I haven't entirely figured it out, it depends on my mood.

Usually we clasp because his hand is so much bigger than mine. :P
incognita
Feb. 24th, 2005 05:13 pm (UTC)
We do the Interlocking FingersTM because it feels more intimate. I hate holding his had the Kindergarten way, it just feels too..... icky.
saltwatersound
Feb. 24th, 2005 06:01 pm (UTC)
We interlock fingers too. Occasionally we'll clasp, say if we're wearing gloves or when the size of his fingers becomes uncomfortable for my littler fingers to get around. But 90% of the time, we interlock!
xinit
Feb. 24th, 2005 06:55 pm (UTC)
Interlocked fingers. Everyone else is wrong, and they should all be punished.
athanata
Feb. 24th, 2005 08:55 pm (UTC)
i've actually never done the interlocking fingers one - i do "kindergarden style"
although i'll occasinally just do a "pointer finger loop"

::wants to meet a boy::
razorw
Feb. 24th, 2005 10:13 pm (UTC)
Kindergarten style all the way.... :O) --Ray
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